I'm a big believer in signs. But even though I don't want to admit it, sometimes the signs may be making us stronger for what we want the least.

A friend told me, what is the worst thing that could happen between you and your wife during this separation. I told her the worst thing that could happen would be that she fell in love with someone else. Then she asked me what could be the best thing to happen, I told her the best thing would be if she came back home.

It's tough but we have to prepare ourselves for both the best and worst case scenarios. I sometimes can't do that but I try every day. Because we may never know when we'll get what we want and we may be surprised on how we react.

Stay strong and pray...


Me - 39
W - 39
D - 11
D - 8
S - 5
Served - 04/14/09
Temporary Court Orders - 04/27/09

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.