Thanks Sandi & Puppy for advice about "protection". Got it! Agree that our health is all we have in the end.
On another note....and maybe I should be posting in a separate area? Since we have been more sexually active than prior to "the separation talk 2/15" and actually a few months prior to this, I have noticed some ED issues with H. He is 50 almost 51. I am sure this is probably devastating to him (not so great for me either) but I am totally understanding of this. He had a medical checkup and does have a slightly enlarged prostate. Can this cause ED? I wonder what OW (or possible OW - still completely unconfirmed) - thinks? Maybe she doesn't have this issue with him because she is "new"? Anyway. Just wondering...
