In desperate need of advice, separation looming!

[confusedinpa]

WOM,

I'm sorry to hear your situation is heading similar to mine.

My wife told me yesterday that she is moving out soon (probably mid-April). I'm struggling on how to deal with it. I had thought I was doing well with my 180, but my wife says that she doesn't love me like a wife should love a husband so she can't see that working. A big difference, not sure if it's just to make it easier for her, is that she is trying to be really nice.

I have read some of your thread, you had posted that you've been following mine as it seems like we have very similar situations. I don't have any advice as I'm not sure what to do either. If anyone has time to take a look at mine, I would really appreciate it.

I keep thinking I messed up by how I handled my weekend trip with my boys, but I gotta remind myself that my wife had already set up an appointment with the realtor before I even brought up my trip. She was already planning the escape. I'm sure I made it easier for her by messing up how I communicated my trip, but it is still hard.

I just don't know what to do right now. To top it off, my youngest turns 3 today. I know I have to be strong for my boys.

So that's probably the best advice I can give you, is look at your signature. I wish I can give you more advice, but right now I'm struggling to find some yourself.