So my H keeps bugging me about picking up the D papers...

I made the mistake of telling him the deputy had stopped by while I was away... after a few glasses of wine. Whoops! The D papers are sitting at the deputy's office. I was going to wait for him to make his rounds and officially serve me. But now I feel obligated to pick them up.

Again today H asked when I would pick them up. Any ideas how to respond? I would really like to lash out and say.... quit asking me!! :-)


Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09