Living in a what if world is pointless, I wouldn't do that.
I didn't say you had to live in "what if" world. I was just trying to point out that it may be hard for her to deal with what she has done to you. Maybe she thinks she is punishing herself by staying away and getting the divorce.
You know me, I am right up there with leave their @ss if they can't grow up and come home. I am all for DBing to a certain point.
What I am trying to say is not coming out right. My mind says one thing but it just doesn't sound right when I type it. I'm used to bashing you Trapt, not being serious about stuff so it is hard for me to explain it.