Slowly but surely - detach and 180

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Sounds like you're on the right track.

Your goals you have are great. It's easy just to float around and continue on with the same patterns without having goals. Giving her space is also good. I am trying hard to also give my H space and not press a friendship. It can be very difficult! I also think church is a great way to lift your spirit and get support. I have strengthened my R with God through all this mess and continue to be renewed :-)