trapt, I guess the point I was trying to make is this.
For self esteem alone we deserve better...however saying we deserve better is a trap as well. It's like resting on your laurels. It's like 'oh you poor thing, I cannot believe she did that to you, your such a jem!'
Saying we deserve better to me is...like an assumption. I have reached my goal and until you catch up, I'm going to sit here.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
