PortlandDad, I hear you loud and clear. If she doesn't want a divorce then why is she getting into debt? I mean, I'll pay for it if she wants to move back but come on. Wouldn't an expensive vacation be more sensible and more fun?
It sounds like your wife doesn't know what she wants either. I can only hope that both of them hit rock bottom quickly, wake up one morning and say to themselves, WTF am I doing, I need to get my ass back home. Oh crap, what if my husband won't take me back? Yeah right, now I'm dreaming. I would take mine back in a sec at this point. The problem is, she doesn't want to and I fear that as more time passes she will want to less and less. CRAP!!!!!!
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
