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[PortlandDad]

Hello mykids,
It really is too bad that you are here, but you are among friends and well-wishers here. HAve you frequented the forums for long before you posted? If not, you should be reading some other people's threads. There is a wealth of information, advice, and commiseration in them. Take the bits and pieces that make sense, get some ideas for some 180s in your life, and feel free to jump into any thread that looks like you may want help with, or want to comment on.

Also, so that folks will get to know you, you might want to put a link to your own thread (this one!) in your signature so that interested folks can read your posts and find your main sitch (story). Tell us a little more about your story. Are there kids involved? It sounds very much like your H is having an EA, and maybe even a PA. What do you know about the OW? If she is an acquaintance of yours, have you confronted her?

Again, I'm sorry you are here; this is a very hard time in your life and the lives of your family. Hopefully one of the very wise sages here will jump right in with some hope and suggestions for you.