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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
trapt. Good, once you stop changing for the hope that she comes back the better off you are.


The one thing I will agree with her on, the one truth spoken in a tangled web of lies.

Back in October she said "You deserve better."

She was and still is absolutely correct.


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Do you?

Strive to be deserving of better.

Man its dead in here...did Mach cut the cheese or something?



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I would say I was working but figured you all wouldn't believe me. ;\)











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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Man its dead in here...did Mach cut the cheese or something?


LMAO!!!!

Out of everyone, that would be the first suspect LOL!!

Seriously though, I believe I do deserve better. It's just too damn bad for whatever reason she doesn't want to become better, I don't believe that she can't for some reason or other.

To say something like that sounds more of like an excuse than anything else.


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Mach,

Don't you ever stroll in here and touch off a paint peeler then bail!!!!



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Originally Posted By: trapt
Mach,

Don't you ever stroll in here and touch off a paint peeler then bail!!!!



paint peeler? I'm out of the loop cuz I have never heard it called that before.











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trapt, I guess the point I was trying to make is this.

For self esteem alone we deserve better...however saying we deserve better is a trap as well. It's like resting on your laurels. It's like 'oh you poor thing, I cannot believe she did that to you, your such a jem!'

Saying we deserve better to me is...like an assumption. I have reached my goal and until you catch up, I'm going to sit here.



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Originally Posted By: trapt
Mach,

Don't you ever stroll in here and touch off a paint peeler then bail!!!!




And to think....I let you off the hook earlier.....

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Yeah, hamsters dead, pull it out.



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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
trapt, I guess the point I was trying to make is this.

For self esteem alone we deserve better...however saying we deserve better is a trap as well. It's like resting on your laurels. It's like 'oh you poor thing, I cannot believe she did that to you, your such a jem!'

Saying we deserve better to me is...like an assumption. I have reached my goal and until you catch up, I'm going to sit here.



I do see your point. I am well aware of my own shortcomings, I will never just sit still or place myself above someone else. It's just that I don't think anyone deserves to be lied to or cheated on. Everyone makes mistakes and I have forgiven her. It's frustrating to see her just sitting there all whoa is me you deserve better and I'm not going to make the effort to pick myself back up and try.

Oh T2 Mach can unload them in a way that takes the paint right off the walls hence the name paint peeler.


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