dburt, I hope and pray you are correct in your anaylsis. I have not given her anything to justify her decision in my mind. I have stopped pursuing, don't call(unless she asks)and do my damn best I can at having a PMA. I will not lie--it is difficult at times and I think she senses that. I have not gotten into an argument with her either. I have become the master at validating. My daughter and I have built our own routine and once the intial shock wears off I think we will find some stuff to do. Maybe I will take her to the beach this weekend? Thanks very much for your input and positive words!
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
