Hi, We had a wonderful time and it was like therapy for D15. I caught glimpses of my child that was carefree last summer before WH dropped the bomb. She was playful, laughing, and just enjoying herself. It actually brought tears to my eyes.
Now I am back. I think that H was suspended because of A. He was called in last Wed along with OW and now it says he is out of the office till Friday. Thinking maybe 5 day suspension and OW NOTHING happened. H actually texted me on Monday telling me he is taking vacation time till Friday. I think he is worried that if L finds out it will prove adultery in court.
I meet with L on Thursday to talk about financial stuff. I am trying to drag this out as long as I can. Sometimes I feel like I am on a runaway train that I can't jump out of.
My H still seems very deep in the fog with no signs of it lifting. I am still shocked that after a 2 month PA and maybe a few months EA that H walked away from his family and a 20 year M. He has not called his sister in about a month, talked to D28 in over 3 weeks and D15 has not seen or talked to him since Dec 22. It is like none of us matter anymore but his own agenda. It is actually scary how caught up he is with OW. I don't think a heroin addict could need his fix as much as H with OW.
I still am GAL and working on myself. I hope continues to see the changes and one day the fog lifts. All that I can pray for.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
