so suspicious Naej! No, he's definetly on site, I got the 'out of office' email back confirming it, with the dates, plus he told me himself (and he doesnt really lie to me, just by omission) and anyway, BMF told me. He emailed me in his lunchbreak Monday, the site isnt far from his office but he is normally too busy on site to take a full lunch hour and go back to work. He must have forgotton something! Still not sure about texting.