{{{Pearl}}}} UM..you are NOT a terrible person and, if that is why he turned to OW instead of talking to you about it and trying to work it out, then he is the terrible one in that scenario!! Next time, no Oprah for you LOLOL
Pearl,
Totally agree with Tawnya here! Don't beat yourself up. You are NOT the bad one here. What person would not want to get his/her needs met by their partner before looking outside of the R? THAT is the easy way.
I was laughing about the "no Ophrah for you!" Made me think of the soup nazi on Seinfeld! LOL!!
In all seriousness, watch something fun if you can't sleep in the middle of the night. Everybody's mind goes into negative patterns late at night. 5am is the worst for me! If I wake up then, it's at least an hour before I can sleep again. And then it's pretty much time to get up!!
Also, I do feel Puppy's right on the money! Respect IS really important to men. At least it is to me!
