No snip snip yet, since we are not certain one kid is the end of it for us. I am 32, and wondering about it, but can't pull the trigger just yet. She is not on BC pill, since we figured that was making things worse for her.

I have tried not pressuring her. Trust me, she will never initiate. I have gone 6 months in the past waiting for her to initiate. It is like the thought never even enters her mind.

Spellfire aka Mike

"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A