Here's another possible issue...one where I may have showed too much hand....I was in the shower Saturday night and H came over and my Divorce Remedy was on the side table with my bottle of tea on top of it. He has to be oblivious to not have seen it. I'm pretty sure he did. He didn't say anything though, but I feel like that gives him the upper hand here. He's always known he can go out there and screw around and I'm still going to take him back. Probably not good.

I hope he cares. It just amazes me that he can go a whole day and not call me. He does it all of the time. He calls or texts on the weekends, but not so much on the weekdays. It makes me crazy. But that's something I can let go, it just dampens my spirits.

But you are right. I need to let it go. I need to stay calm and collected and my head in the game.

I'm glad you agree with the ML. We've never had a problem there and I hope it reminds him of good things.