So the plan has been to tell my sons. In addition, when I am financially able, I will pay all my own bills.
As far as the shared situation, she and i would never be in the same residence at the same time. At least that's how I understand it from the way she comunicated it to me.
You see it's hard for me to figure out what she is saying, this has always been an issue. She tells me stuff in what i feel is a vague manner. Later I will talk to her about some stuation and she will tell me that we had already talked about this. When in fact she didn't give details, she will then say well i thought you knew that.
I tell her, like I did this morning about her moving into the spare room, that I can't and don't want to try and read your mind. She just told me she wanted to move into the room, not that she wanted everything of mine out of there so she could have her own space.
