I'm glad there is someone with a positive story as well. So, if you would offer some tips and anaylsis on our sitches so we can learn from the master. Seriously, I don't know what to think about my sitch. It appears to be headed in a positive direction but there are serious contradictions in what she's saying and what she is doing.
AWAW, if I could give you one piece of advice it would be this:
Do NOT focus on what she says; only focus on what she DOES. Because wayward spouses LIE.
When what she DOES aligns with what she SAYS -- consistently, over time -- then she will be speaking the truth.