I've moved here from MLC

[2gthrButApart]

One more thing, if you continue to bicker, he's going to think you haven't changed so why "try" why bother,he's probably thinking if you reconcile he'll just come back to what he wanted so badly to get away from. I bet when you met you were a strong, secure, confident woman. Some how over the yrs we tend to lose that, and that's a Huge turn off for a man.

You have to seriously DB, do 180's not just detach and go dark, but do 180's. Whatever he expects the old you to do, do the complete opposite. If you usually complain about anything, bite your tongue. Now is not the time to try and fix "relationship" problems b/c you're not in a "relationship".

We all have a million questions, but if we start asking away it pushes them away. We have to be strong and fight it. Live in the moment as Aj said. If you keep living in the past you miss the present and ruin the future. For the moment Let it go. I know it's hard, but if you in fact want to reach a reconciliation it's something you have to do. And didn't you and I both agree a few wks ago...No More Questions? I remember that..... (((Hugs))) Stay strong, remember Patience!!!