Of course, this was before my education here and I blew up at her and said for her to get out of la la land, that the divorce would not be easy and perfect for everyone, it would be difficult on everyone and especially for the boys who need a father 24/7 not just on weekends and sporting events. At first when she said she was finished I even questioned her motherhood to put our boys in a potentially dangerous situation for their well being. She sure did not like that at all.
Burt
I find it very instructive that one of the very few guys who's having success right now, took a very strong stand with his wayward spouse.