This house setup situation must be very common as my wife said something similar. We could sell our big house and get 2 small houses side by side no less, so my two boys could go back in forth as they pleased. Of course, this was before my education here and I blew up at her and said for her to get out of la la land, that the divorce would not be easy and perfect for everyone, it would be difficult on everyone and especially for the boys who need a father 24/7 not just on weekends and sporting events. At first when she said she was finished I even questioned her motherhood to put our boys in a potentially dangerous situation for their well being. She sure did not like that at all.
