Yes, but that is the commonly held belief. You are minding your own business, and bam! you get hit by Cupid's arrow. There she is, your soulmate! Of course, you have no choice but to go have a drink and then to the nearest hotel room! And when the dart wears off.....you make your apologies, it was supposed to last forever, there must be something wrong, and you wait for the next one. Isn't that how you live your life?