2. She said that the way she would like things to be is that she and the boys move into a smaller house and I move into a studio apt. She said then we can co-parent the boys. Meaning she would like it if the boys would not have to be shuffled back and forth between my studio and the house. She went on to say that means a few days a week I would say in the studio and a few days a week she would stay in the studio.-------> is this a good thing?
I guess this has to be up to you, but personally I think it is a terrible idea.
It is supposedly good for the kids, and my W suggested the same sort of thing when she was talking about D and looking for a way to make it painless for everyone, but...
it seems to me that neither spouse gets to move on. You are then tied together forever - living in separate houses together. Neither of you can build a new life, new relationships, etc. Except for the kids, it would seem to be a situation that is the worst of both worlds - neither married nor free.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
