I finally sat down today and caught up with you stitch here. Sorry it took so dang long.............. but, it made me think of one thing that I think I completely missed. Has this lack of wanting sex ONLY come up in the last 15 months ? So it was OK before then? If so, ooooooooo and wow, so sorry to hear that, and no wonder you were so adiment about finding help. I thought it was more like me, and oh my, I can imagine the hurt you must of felt when he told you about the ED. OUCH!
Perhaps this will be a starting point of sorts. I don't imagine he's proud of keeping it from you, but maybe it was also his way of burying his head in the sand until it maybe got better on its own, which it didn't. ((( Ho Hum, MEN! )) :P
(( hugs )) Ill be back soon tc until then, always thinking of you