I'm not sure if going into C together will help anything. I'm not going to pay for it if she just folds her arms and sits there.
It's typically of little use if one of the partners is still involved in an affair.
Puppy
I'd even go so far as to say that in cases like this, it is more hurtful than helpful.
Your wayward has already shown she has mastered twisting situations to better suit her new "reality" (threatening to steal the baby). It would be easy for her to do the same with C.
As an example, our MC told my WAW "If you aren't willing to contribute to this process by answering questions honestly, I can't help you with your M".
My WAW: "See, she said we should get divorced!"
/shakes head.
H: 38 W: 36 S: 8 S: 5 M: 16 Bomb: 8/25/08 OM: 9/21/08 EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...) Sep: 9/21/08 D Filed 9/23/08 My Situation
