So I talked to the wife about her moving into the other room some more.
I asked why she wanted to be the one to move. She said she agreed that I am so tall that our big bed is the only one my feet won't hang off of unless I sleep on the floor. She also said that she wants to have her own space and for me to have her own space.
She said she thinks it's the best option given the fact that I can't afford to pay for a studio to live in right now. If she had it her way I would be making enough money to move out so she could have her space.
She then asked why i wanted to, I said I have a lot of reasons. She then asked what does it mean for me that she was moving to the other room, I paused, then said it means a lot of different things to me.
She then said, you see every time something like this comes up it's like you have to go through it all over again.
She very often assumes what I am thinking or conjectures what I am thinking. I told her she has no idea what's going on in my head and stop trying to assume you do know. I then said I realize and deal with what is going on at every moment in the day so don't say that every time something comes up I have to deal with it agian.
