I HOPE...I am submitting the LAST documentation that I need. They want some credit card statements from 2007 and my 1999 tax return. We lived in our house about a year before tying the knot. The appraiser said that this would give me a big credit. Interestingly....the 1999 return was missing. S'OK...my CPA had a copy.
All around me..it is tough to hear constant reminders about people who have achieved a great marriage: -the affair I went to this weekend (a bar mitzvah)....the parents -listening to the radio on the way to work today..men asked to phone in about whether they enjoy cuddling and must it always segue into something more. Many men called in that they enjoy just cuddling with their wives. -having to do things that exhibit divorce, eg., having to discuss methods for co participation with cub scout achievements when the STBXW keeps the cub book in her car
It's a path to travel. As I look back, I am sorry that I didn't file sooner. I should have filed after I discovered her tryst in the backseat of the car in Dec '06. I have really great weeks and I have days that I have to put one foot in front of the other and keep going.
When I was a boy/young man..and...if I had a breakup with someone, my mother used to say to me: "try and get over it. There is nothing deader than a dead romance." When I found DB/DR, I believed that I could thwart that old saying...that I could beat the devil.
I think mom was right. Don't kids always know better than their parents? LOLOLOLOLOLOL.
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Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
