She was born 1 year to the day from the bomb. I even told my H that tonight. He didn't really see the significance of it.......
Don't say things like that to him, you cannot guilt him at this stage and no he will not see the point. In his head he is done and gone and anything we try to do or say to make them "see" will not to any good and can even backfire.
It is so hard not to do but for now tell him nothing other than child related emergencies. Hope baby is doing well and mum too. I had a hold for about an hour of a 5 week old the other day. It was just so lovely, what time wasters they are though! I just sat and gazed and gazed. Probably wind I know but he did several smiles at me whilst we chatted.
