Thanks!!! This is what I get from the people on these boards and my friends - different perspective. In truth I was hurt because I thought it was nice she was inviting me over and when she asked I felt that if she didn't need stuff fixed she would have never invited.
She has invited me before but fewer and fewer times as the seperation progresses.
We live about 5 minutes from each other. The decision has kind of been accepted that we will co-parent our child. We'll see how that works out as we go forward. I think the move to CO will change things drastically but she confuses me on that one also.