Wow, that was well put. There is so much out there that can be gathered watching others threads.
confusedinpa,
She may say she doesn't want to party but be prepared. She will experience a new found freedom and there will be a short duration of her going out with the free time without responsibilites. You will need to ignore it like others on this site advise. I'm not even the one that wanted my seperation and yet I enjoyed that intial burst of freedom. Just thought I'd share.