Ok, probably a bit silly not to have just got the CD, but jesus !!! I wouldn't expect my kids to throw a wobbly like that if not getting something they wanted and they would be told about how ungrateful they were being too.
Sorry, Lan, I'm probably not a great deal of help to you of late, but all I see is this super unbelieveably patient nice guy getting walked over by someone, who from the outside looking in, does not deserve you !!!
Something in DB springs to mind for me here, doing something different. I'm not sure what that is, but have you thought about that ?