The only slim ray of hope in anything has been that she is (sort of) willing to go to counseling to work on "communication" between both of us so we can get through the D easier. Part of me thinks she is realizing she has screwed up and wants a professional to help her worm her way back in, but the other part of me realizes her "defense mechanism" was to attempt to destroy my reputation, threaten me with D1, and an attempt to steal custody from me.

I'm not sure if going into C together will help anything. I'm not going to pay for it if she just folds her arms and sits there.


"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."