things might be getting better...

[Esky94]

So W has been to the next meeting with the mediator. She hasn't come back to me with a date to talk about the first meeting yet. She's avoiding the whole issue and not taking responsibility for talking.

I asked W today about the mail I sent a week and a half ago with the dates and milestones for getting through the process. She mentioned getting back to me after she's had the first meeting with the family liason officer, but that's not what I was asking. I said the email I sent on the Sunday with all the dates. Her response was "Oh...I probably ignored that one". Oh great. I said, "Well, can you have a look at it because it's got a lot of dates which are suggestions and I would like to have some input".

She rolled her eyes and just walked away.

I'm disappointed with her. It's obvious she's not even interested in doing a separation with any level of mature communication, so what am I supposed to do?

Sigh. Back to working on me.

However, I'm feeling very strong for taking the the issue to her. I feel, though, that perhaps I shouldn't be using her to learn how to get courage...and just be courageous in our relationship. I don't now how many people would understand that. It's dammned if I do and damnned if I don't.

Sigh. Back to working on me.

Esky