WAW - Very confused and devestated - pt 5

[MrBond]

It takes a separation of at least a month. And that is no or as little contact as possible.

"She said if I presented it as an opportunity and then discussed it."

She continues to put the blame on you for her path and it's sad that she's not taking any personal responsibility. To me, you asked her and that was that and you told her it was time you needed to think and time to give her to think. It's pretty concrete to me and if she was hurt, then she should have spoken up. How are you supposed to learn what "hurts" her if she doesn't tell you? I ran into the same thing with my W.

Is there any reason why you're still going to attend C? It continues to sound like she's doing it just for you.