Just keep swimming...PH #6

[pearlharbr]

I do appreciate that kids make people more motivated to work things out and I missed that aspect early on.

I'm moving back to San Francisco. Not from there originally but spent college and a few years afterwards there. xBF said he'd never live in CA so I didn't think I'd ever get back to SF but I really do feel at home there.

I only have the one sports bar I like. The other one near the house I tried is where xBF likes to meet OW so I will never go there again. Plus the guys at Chopper's all like me and have offered to beat up xBF so of course that's where my loyalties lie. You'll have to let me know where you end up. I'm in town now but we lived in the burbs by DTC for a few months.

It will be better for the cats to separate them since they fight a lot and the big one has gotten less healthy instead of healthier. That is the main reason. It's also going to be hard to find an apt in SF that allows a cat, it would be nearly impossible to find one that allows more than one. Sigh. But I may have a change of heart in the end and take the little one with me too.