davidswife - That is a good observation to ponder. I'm not sure if he ever did mean it when he said it. I guess it's just one of those things that I need to let go of without an explanation. But that's why I was always leery, he has not DONE anything. That is the truth of the situation.

Kenn - Thanks for the support. I have said before that I am glad we don't have kids so once everything is sorted out and settled I will never have to speak to xBF again. And I won't. I have never been one of those people who is friends with an ex. And xBF knows this and has said he's sad about never seeing or talking to me again. Too bad for him, he chose the actions so he chose the consequences. On another topic - where in CO are you moving if you care to share? Denver is nice but I cannot wait to get back to the coast myself. It is just way too dry here and I need a real city.

Tawnya - when the summer concert schedule is announced I'll have more definite ideas on where I want to go for a girls' weekend. ;\)

It was a quiet night at home watching movies, tv, surfing and chatting online. I kept the blues at bay pretty well. Just a couple minutes ago I got sad again looking at my kitties sleeping next to me on the sofa. They fight all the time and generally avoid each other. But the little one was already curled up asleep and the big one jumped up next to me, looked at both of us, and plopped himself down between us with one paw on his sister. It breaks my heart to think about leaving the little one behind if they are actually starting to get along. And I will have to give her up completely since there will be no contact with xBF. Sigh.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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