SC I am so sorry you are going thru this. I hope you can save your marriage. I know it hurts like nothing could to find out about them moving on. I will never understand how they can go on soooo quickly. I couldnt stand the thought of another man touching me right now, its just sick to me. I just learned from my xh that he will be getting married to his child-gf by the years end. Of, course he was angry at me when he told me so who knows. Either way it tore my heart out. I thought it was bad when he moved her in. It seems to just get worse. I will pray for you. Just reach out to GOD and seek him to find your peace. He knows whats best for you.