JD! Was checking in on your Friday outcome, looks like you had a little snag there...
Anyways, i am torn between rob's attitude and yours, I can really imagine what it must be to be in your sitch for 3 years. At some point you reach the state of mind that enough is enough and no change seems to be happening.
On the other hand, sitch's always change, they will never stay the same forever. There are some changes happening right now, so it would be worthwile waiting to see how they pan out.
Sorry to lean back and forth there ^^
I do remember you telling us that you were going to concentrate on your kids and that you weren't interested in dating or anything like that. In that context, the words a few posts up struck me: you said that you weren't putting your life on hold any longer. So I have to ask you in what aspect do you feel your life is on hold right now? Are you trying to make an important career decision, moving decision...? I guess what I am asking is: is there some other factor pushing you to force a decision? I do COMPLETELY understand you wanting to clarify things for your kids, but I think you did that with the talk you had with them.
