Sorry NCB, I disagree. Sometimes why not be the bigger person, not for him but for your own well being. If you felt you made a mistake and jumped the gun, why not say sorry. It didn't cost a thing. I think sometimes if we do what's right, even if our spouses don't accpet it, the good will come back to us. May not be from you spouse, but it will come back. No 2x4s at all Karen. Actually I applaud you, even with his bad reaction, good job on taking the higher ground.
