I liked that movie, and for the Love Dare to work, the other spouse can't be a slime or a spineless lyiar, so it would not have worked with me either. Anyways, hope you have thing squared away with your L, you should have a say about the kids and where they stay, do you have joint custody? that's what I have now, and we both have a say about where kids go/not go.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.