Well, W never made it to the game, so I just texted her updates about the score and how S15 played and she kept texting back with the "Thanks! and I appreciate the updates!" which I ignored as I know they are from guilt and she still wants to be "best friends". I hate to burst her bubble but we are not best friends as best friends don't betray one another like she has to me. I'm friendly but I don't confide in her nor really talk with her about anything except the kids and finances.

S15's team lost 12-3, he pitched fairly well, too many errors and he did score a run.

My detachment comes from knowing I cannot compete with the OM (I tried in January but didn't matter what I did, the OM was all W could think about) so I don't contact her unless its business related and I'm working on responding in a friendly business manner. It is hard at times as I miss talking with her and I mean really talking with her like we used to. That's why I'm grateful I found this forum and have lots of support from family & friends. And, of course, I'm home with the kids \:\)


Me-44
WAW-42 (ILYBNILWY)
S-16
S-14
M-10/17/1992 T23
Met OM 10/10/08; Bomb 12/27/08; Moved in with OM 01/27/09
Me stronger and happier everyday!