You need to ask for a free consultation, they usually don't offer that up. I bought "Divorce for Dummies" and its a good reference but you need to talk with L so you can get informed about your state laws. I don't want a D either but do want to protect myself as my W is not thinking much the last 6 months either. Good luck!
Me-44 WAW-42 (ILYBNILWY) S-16 S-14 M-10/17/1992 T23 Met OM 10/10/08; Bomb 12/27/08; Moved in with OM 01/27/09 Me stronger and happier everyday!