Ok, so I don't have to file even when I talk with L. But when L tells me that if I don't file, then I am responsible for half of all his debt, I am going to go insane.
I'm not kidding.
I HATE this sitch. It is so unfair. I DON'T WANT A D!
I don't, don't, don't, don't.
(See, I am already insane!)
WHY, why, why, why, why do I have to file for D just because my H is absolutely messed up in the head????
I guess I am jumping to conclusions, but from what Silver Fox says, I am responsible for 1/2 of his debt until someone files.
That is so not right.
And I have to pay these lawyers that I "talk" to? When do I have to start paying them?
The gal from my Divorce Care group said she talked to a handful of lawyers and found one that was the most fair. Perhaps I will get his number from her. I need to think on this a few more days.
Besides, H just got his disbursement for this trimester on 3/3/09. It was for $15,000. Guess we can chalk that up to my total. Next disbursement is July.......
Last edited by Belle; 03/23/0911:54 PM.
M:36 H:36 M 3 Y T 8 Y No kids Bomb 6/30/08 PA I filed 9/29/09 D final 1/22/2010
