there are those who divorce and move on, and become better people...and remarry later. (I have two in my own family).
One wonders if that could ever happen if they had stayed in limbo so long...I doubt it. Not much growth, so not much chance of a lasting recon...
We know it's not easy. But is what you are going through, ad infinitum, easier?
(( j ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016