The wife now told me this morning she will move into the extra bedroom and I can have the big bed until we move. She said we will just have to buy another twin size bed for her to use, which is fine because we were going to being buying one for my three year old pretty soon any how.
I had planned on telling her today i would go into the extra bedroom today as well though. I had worked out in my mind that I could use the room as sort of an escape for me and a way to get out of her 'space'. This way I could give her space.
What do you all think, should I just let her go to the extra room or stay in our normal room.
What complicates this is that we have not told the boys that we will eventually be divorcing or anything. My youngest son gets in bed with us in the middle of the night often and will not understand why his mom is not in the bed.
I feel gulity that my wife has to move out of our bed and the thought that we may never share the same bed again is overwhelmingly painful of a thought!
