"What did she want me to do so she felt loved? I just want to understand so I can give her what she wants."
That's where the problem is. She has told you that she's not thinking about what she "wants". Just what she doesn't want. Maybe your C should focus on that. And when your W says that she "wants" a D, flip it back to say, no, I mean what do you want in life? Have your C focus on that so that she thinks about herself rather than the M.
Right now she views the M as crap because she can't get over stuff. Well, like you said above, the M doesn't make you happy, you make yourself happy.
ding ding ding.
That's the enlightened thought that all of us LBS find out. But it's not until our WAWs discover and believe that nugget of truth for themselves will they stop running.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
