Seperated But Living Together

[2gthrButApart]

Thought**

What if none of these DB goals and lil' positive signs mean absolutely nothing?
What if he's "Just being a good friend"?
Why does he hug me so tight at night?
Why does he touch my elbow or my back in a loving way?
Does any of this mean anything?

I remember about a mth ago when I got angry and cried he told me he thought we were past all of this and have already gotten over the break up. B/c I've been so nice. What if he thinks we are just really good friends and that's all.

Can someone give me some advice that has gone thru this? I know we shouldn't listen to anything they say, and his actions are different and a lil' more affectionate, but I can't help but worry that he's DONE with me, and is just being nice so we can have a decent time while we live together.

He called me about 6x today to have lil' friendly conversations. I need some guidance, I feel like I'm backtracking, and going back into worry mode.

**Sidenote, today my SIL called my H, b/c she found some type of cheating evidence (she's engaged to his brother who is a BIG cheater) anyway...she told him that his bro gave her "the speech" the whole I don't feel the same way about you anymore thing. And he told her it reminds him of when me and him WERE having problems. He told her to just ask what his brother wants, does he want to work on it, or does he want space.

These are the things that are making me think...When we "were" having problems he told me he doesn't want to fix anything with me, said he's completely done and maybe in the distant future we can fix things but not right now. Does he think our problems are over b/c we are not together, so is that what he could have meant by "WERE" having problems, and we aren't any longer b/c we are not "together", tho we do more now than when we were? What if he enjoys this friendship way more and thinks our new friendship will get ruined if we reconcile??