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Wow, well he has emailed me! It was sent at 1 at lunchtime, so he must have gone back to his office to do it, it was dashed off and badly spelt. He emailed to tell me that the bank rang to say they had a letter returned from our house (tenant must have returned it as gone away) did I know anything about it? That was it! Totally unnecessary! Its no big deal, he could've told me anytime this week. The bank have us listed as living somewhere else anyway and seeing as they phoned him, he could've just got it resent there. No idea if it was an excuse to email or if he really was concerned!?

He said he was out on site today, said he hoped I enjoyed the cinema and was glad I got my diss in and addded, "sorry bit boring - but in a rush". So dont know why he said that either! Bit boring?

In other news, Cher has been in touch and her and G are looking pretty rocky. So thats sad for them, but also, complicates things with me and my ex and isnt the greatest news for my sitch.

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Dont worry about G and Cher. Sometimes it's best we dont know much anyway. MOst of the times actually...

He sent it while she was away probably. LOL, you are becoming the OW!!!!

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Gee, now it means you may actually have to talk to each other and not have a middle man!! Sorry for Cher and her BF but it may be alright for you. Take it one day at time.

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Hey girls.. yeah, I figured things have to change and will anyway, but it was useful to hear the gossip from G! I dont thikn they will split up, not yet anyway.

So I emailed him back and I asked him if Thursday was a good night to meet up!

But I dont know when he will get the email, or if it will be too short notice for him when he does.

But I did it, I just asked him!...then I went and put some fake tan on! I dont know if he will agree and I was never in the Brownies (I'm not good with authority), but as the Brownies say, "be prepared"...

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That's why we shave those legs!! ;\)

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Yee Ha!!! Well done on you Ali...what was it that made you bite the bullet this time?

I sincerely hope he gets the email and responds positively...

Best - GFI

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Ali...

This is my first time posting to you, but I've read along for quite some time... A few months back I bookmarked something you posted from Priya Kale's web-site, and have, every once in awhile, looked back at the site. Interesting, but not stuff I typically would give much attention to... But, hey, if we're on this site, we're looking for answers from any source, right?

ANYWAYS, while Priya was filling in for Yasmin last week, something really started to seem odd/too parallel to me... And, I think it was while Priya was writing for her...

Well, today, it says...

Tuesday March 24 – Moon into Pisces

Moon Meditation: “Thinking about love..!”

Whatever’s happened in the past few hours or days, try to get past it as soon as you can. The skies were very tense indeed and it’s a possibility that the dramas which arose as a result of the celestial alignments soon won’t seem to matter anywhere near as much as they did at the start. Whatever else we do right now, the smartest thing is to focus on love. That might sound odd but it suits the current astrology. Make love your focus, every time you make an emotional decision.

I may just be applying what I have had going on in my own life to what is written, but it's happened, now four times in the past week. Now, that I have a parallel to what she says may happen to what DID happen, how about acting on some of this, huh?

Just thought I'd share.

GOOD LUCK w/the possibility of Thursday! ACT on it! LOL


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Hi Mindblank, you're a lurker!? Oh I like that about Priya and yes I read that too, just embrace the love! I think its easier now I did finally detach somewhat and its silly we dont meet, seeing as he emails me so much ! ('Mindblank?' Really? Thats funny, gosh, can I borrow that for a while from you? My minds like a dusty government office that holds documents for 75 years.. rows of filing cabinets stretching back into the distance like one of those endless corridors in a Scooby Doo cartoon....).

Kat.. damn, I knew I forgotton to do something !!! I better add that to the list before Thursday, along with get hair cut, buy new clothes and wear 2 bras, lol.

GFI.. um, how do I follow that? With a yee-hah back pardner and a saddle up, we're gonna have us a hoe down! Um, etc. Seriously though, I dont know, I just sort of did it without worrying as I DO feel a bit more detached (at last!) but also... cos I was talking to my Mum about getting the papers signed and she reminded me, ex told BMF on my birthday that he "would have to see me soon to sort out the paperwork for the flat" - I'd forgotton he said that! So he is aware he needs to and willing to meet me, so I thought I'd ask!

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Hi Ali, any news on email about meeting Thursday?
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Kat.. damn, I knew I forgotton to do something !!! I better add that to the list before Thursday, along with get hair cut, buy new clothes and wear 2 bras, lol.

HMMMMMM what happened to no expectations? quite high on the DB list I believe.

BTW why 2 bra's? I am stumped on that one.

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I was only kidding Naej, I'm nearly past caring if he wants to meet me or not, quite honestly! But my pride wants me to look good if we do meet, its just human nature, I'm not turning up looking a bag of sh*t !

I just booked all my tickets to go home for the weekend, so I'm really looking forward to that. And Cher has invited me to a psychic evening in a pub, where the very experienced pyschic lady person goes around the audience giving readings, for free! So that should be fun, wonder if she will pick me !?

He hasnt replied to my invite or email, but its no biggie, he's out on site for 3 weeks now anyway.

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