Love you and I'm feeling your pain and big decisions to come. 25MLC has great advise... remember nothing is EVER permanent.... you could stop the moving process if H starts breaking down, you could move to a new city together if R happens after the move and start a new life.. Nothing is forever...things change and can change... so don't look at this move as so final...
I agree you've been at this DB thing a year now and I would think you would see some signs or some communication from him one way or the other... if what you were doing was working you would know by now.. let's try something different... I'm dealing with the same thing.. the reality that my M is probably over but in reality we don't know what the future holds so take care of you and the kids.. if you start the process on the move as you said it will take some time so you sit down and let your H let him know that this is a decision you have made, that the door is still cracked, but you need to do this for you and the kids.. write him a letter whatever works best... then start the wheels in motion...
God will take care of you .. pray about your decision ...
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
