Thanks. That sounds good. She doesn't know I have spoken to an attorney yet. Her hope is that we can make all of our arrangements and agreements a head of time and then sit down to get the appropraite forms. She wanted me to go with her this week to see what the process is and go over financial details. I told her I could not, 1st because I am working all week with a business colleague and will not have time, and 2nd because I am still "trying to get my head around everthing and am not in a place where I can meet with an attorney". It hasn't come up in a few days, but her next appointment is Wed, so I am sure she will ask again.